Eat well to support your immune system. Photo by Anna Pelzer on Unsplash

Look forward to summer walks with the Hay Fever Prevention Plan. :)
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You might be surprised to know that hay fever is actually defined as a chronic disease. That means it's there all the time.

So yes, your symptoms might be over with for this year, but no, your hay fever isn't gone. 

The symptoms you suffer with during the hay fever season are an acute flare up of a deep-seated chronic disease.

​In my experience as a homeopath, but also personal experience as a former hay fever sufferer, it is common to dismiss your hay fever as "just a bit of an inconvenience" each year. This is despite the fact that you know what a huge negative impact your hay fever symptoms cause you.

I imagine sufferers do that as they don't want to be to be known as the person that moans about a bit of sneezing and a runny nose as that's what hay fever is perceived to be by people that don't know better.

In 2018 a number of national newspapers ran stories on hay fever which offer support to this theory. Research reported in The Independent on April 22nd 2018,  found that one in five sufferers were so badly affected by their hay fever that they had to take time off work. However, a third of these people lied to their boss about why they needed time off as hay fever was not seen to be a legitimate reason to stay at home.

Anti-histamines are the most common conventional way to deal with symptoms of hay fever. As a homeopath it was particularly interesting (and actually quite a surprise) to see reported that of all those that use anti-histamines to manage their symptoms, 84% of them admitted that they still suffered.

Are you one of the many that take medication to suppress your symptoms but still suffer?

Perhaps you don't like taking medications but are fed up of suffering?

​If you answered 'yes' to either of these questions then this could be just what you're looking.
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The Hay Fever Prevention Plan works by addressing your hay fever when it is dormant - that's why now is the perfect time to act.​​ Let me tell you a bit more about it:

| It’s a simple, structured and individualised plan. You follow the 5 week plan in Autumn and the New Year.

| It addresses the roots of your hay fever and starts to de-sensitise you to histamine, pollens and grasses.

| It builds over time – you can expect to see a big improvement next year but repeating the process again the following year will give even better results.

| It provides effective remedies to take during your hay fever season to avoid the need for anti-histamines and deal with any acute symptoms during the season.


Ultimately the plan gives you the chance to enjoy the summer again using an entirely natural approach. What's more, because of the way that homeopathy works, you're likely to see improvements in more than just your hay fever. :)

If you already know that now is the time for you to act then please click here to book your Hay Fever Initial Consultation with me. 

For those of you that would like a bit more information first then click here to book a free 30 minute, no obligation, Discovery Call with me, or send me a message.
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As a former hay fever sufferer myself, I know what a difference this plan can make and I would love to help you make this change in your life. ​Just think, if you take action now, next summer you could be walking through a field just like the one above and actually be enjoying yourself. :)

I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Take care,
​Sarah x

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One of the most life-changing decisions I've made was to do something about my anxiety and deep-rooted lack of self-worth. I started working on this over 10 years ago. Initially with counselling and then with homeopathy.

It was a big decision but it's been so worth it. 

Outwardly you wouldn't know the difference, but the change on the inside is enormous.

Truly life-changing. Health-changing too.

No more IBS. No more heading towards a stomach ulcer. No more constant state of high-alert just waiting for criticism.

I just remembered a thought that went through my head about 16 years ago. It's about something seemingly trivial, but is an example of how I lived in my head and in a near constant state of fight or flight when I wasn't at home with my husband or with some very close friends or family.

It goes something like this. It's in the final months of my first pregnancy. We're in the process of getting  all the things you need when you have your first baby. I find out about a Nearly New Sale for clothes and equipment for babies and children. For a moment I think "what a great idea". Then I think "but I haven't had the baby yet - what if someone asks why I'm there?". We never went.

It sounds ridiculous now, but I used to have this sort of constant questioning and belittling dialogue in my head most of the time. It wasn't the sort of thing I discussed with anyone as I didn't realise that it didn't have to be like that.

It's a horrible place to be. Really horrible.

But the good news is that it doesn't have to be that way.

Do you have any anxieties, self-doubt or negative ideas about yourself that stop you leading a happy and fulfilled life?

If you do then perhaps this is the time to be brave and ask for help.

The Spring is a great time of year to begin working on issues of insecurities and depression. Everything outside is coming to life and the days are getting longer.

Think about how good it would feel to approach next Winter without the weight of your past dragging you down.

If you would like to find out more about having a consultation with me to address your anxiety, depression and any other related symptoms, please get in touch so we can talk. Everything we discuss is confidential.

I offer a free, no obligation 30-minute Introductory Call so you can ask any questions you have and see if you think I'm the right person to help you through this.

If you think I am, we can book you in for your initial consultation or work out a package of treatment so that we can work together over the next few months.

You can reach me at info@sarahpearman.co.uk or you can give me a call on 07734 922129 (if I can't pick up I'll get back to you as soon as I can).

You can also book an Introductory Call here.

Sarah x

​Earlier this year, a common misconception about the contraceptive pill came to light. In fact several 'myths' about the pill were revealed.

As an alternative healthcare practitioner with a particular interest in women's health, I hope that bringing this story to light will encourage more women to explore all the options available when it comes to their hormones.

I urge you to read the article "Nine major myths about the pill - from cancer to weight gain"  by Holly Grigg-Spall published in The Guardian on 25th February 2019. I think it's likely that many of you will be surprised by what you read. 

I am especially interested in raising awareness about the second myth that Grigg-Spall discusses - Will the pill regulate my periods? 

I regularly come across women that started taking the contraceptive pill in their teens to help 'regulate' their heavy/painful/irregular periods. 

In fact, the bleeds you experience on the pill are not menstruation at all, but the response of your body to the 7 day withdrawal each month from the synthetic hormones that make up the pill.

Your own cycle has been completely suppressed.

In fact, Lara Briden, author of the Period Repair Manual actually describes the state of being on the pill as being like a "chemically induced menopause". 

I believe it's important for a woman to make decisions about her health from an informed position - knowing all the options available to her. Too often we only know about the mainstream options.

Is this something that affects you, or perhaps your daughter or a friend?

Are you struggling with symptoms linked to your hormones?

Heavy, painful or irregular periods?

Tiredness, nausea or headaches?

Acne or sleep issues?

Perhaps you are approaching the menopause?

If you would like to try a natural approach to balancing your hormones and any other related symptoms then I can help you. :)

I have put together a 6 month package to help you find balance in your cycle and feel in control.

The package includes:

• 6 consultations with me
• a herbal detox using easy to take homeobotanical drops
• all your homeopathic remedies
• herbal drops to support you throughout the six months
• email or phone support between appointments
• a Neal's Yard organic body lotion or shower gel with a specially formulated blend of essential oils to help give you a feeling of balance and clarity
• information about other options that I've learnt about over the last 15 years in relation to periods and contraception.

I offer a safe, calm and caring environment for you to talk and everything we discuss is confidential.

All of this will cost £349. 

However, for anyone who signs up by the end of April 2019 I can offer it to you at the special price of £299. 

This works out at less than £50 a month to help you:

• find your natural balance;
• address any symptoms linked to your hormones and;
• because of the way homeopathy works, you can expect improved sleep and a boost in your energy levels and sense of well-being too. :)

Payment by installment is possible.

If you're thinking - is this for me? - then contact me to arrange a free 30 minute Introductory Call so we can chat about your situation. If you prefer you can book it online.


What my clients have said after working with me. 

"I feel more balanced since my first appointment and calmer too."

"My period has settled into a regular pattern now and I feel fine when I have it. No more pain-killers and no bloating."

I look forward to hearing from you.

Sarah x

​Self-care has become a bit of a buzz word at the moment. I'm inclined to think that's a good thing though;  if enough people are talking about it maybe more of us will start to listen.

Here are a few ways you could show yourself some love this Valentines day.

1. Put your own oxygen mask on before you try to take on the world!

Anyone reading this post is likely to have multiple roles and responsibilities in their life.

However, we're also our own person.

To be the best you can be at all your other roles you need to look after you first.

Think about the aircraft safety talk - put your own oxygen mask on before you try and help anyone else with their own.

You shouldn't feel guilty about that, it's just common sense.


2. Try JOMO not FOMO!

The concept of the Joy Of Missing Out will help you to be a much happier and more content person than The Fear Of Missing Out. Honestly.

Try finding some time to think about what's important to you and and set yourself some personal goals.

Worrying about what everyone else is up to is more likely to make you anxious and unfulfilled.


3. Be perfectly imperfect.

Take some chances in your life - if you wait for everything to be perfect you're likely to be waiting a long time.

It's okay to make a mistake.

I used to really struggle with this. I know from experience that it can lead to a lot of pressure and anxiety.

I wouldn't blame someone else for making a mistake or if something wasn't quite perfect, would you?

Why should you give yourself that pressure? When you can accept that no-one is perfect it's a lot easier to feel happy with who you are. It also makes setting a few personal goals an easier thing to do as you're in a better head-space to take some risks.


If you are interested in finding out about the ways in which I can work with you to leave your anxieties behind and live your life to the full I'd love to hear from you. :)

You can book in for an Introductory Call now or just drop me an email.
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​Sarah x

Hello. :)

I’m a bit of a Radio 4 junkie. There always seems to be something interesting to listen to and learn about.

While I got my lunch yesterday I was captivated by a short interview from the 1960's with a World War 1 veteran – one of the Voices of the First World War series of oral history.

It was one man telling his story of a torpedo strike. He survived without physical injury, but the psychological effects followed soon after and stayed with him for the rest of his life.

It is quite possible that it was one of the first times he talked about the emotional impacts of his experiences.

For me, the interview highlights the importance of having an opportunity to talk and  be listened to.
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​I think it can be quite difficult to talk about things that are important.

Sometimes it can take a while to even realise that there’s something that you need to talk about.

Sometimes you know you need to talk but you just don’t know who will listen.

Not only do you need the opportunity, but you need to know that you will be listened to and that you won’t be judged for what you say.
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I’m a great listener!

At the end of their initial consultation, my clients frequently tell me that it felt good to talk.

That they’d never had the opportunity to talk about ‘everything at the same time’ before.

The things that I frequently hear about in my consultations can pretty much be grouped into the following categories:

Issues from childhood and parents;

Humiliation or mortification;

Destructive relationships;
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Loss.

These things might have happened decades ago, but they remain a powerful force. 

They might be the cause of anxiety, a feeling of 'never being good enough' or a fear of rejection.
 

It might have happened years ago, but you don't seem to be able to forget about it.

You might not have mentioned it to anyone else, or perhaps you mentioned it to your GP and all they could offer were anti-depressants.

I use natural and gentle homeopathic remedies and herbs to help you get through whatever it is that is affecting you.

Now might be the right time for you to talk. :)

If reading this makes you think of a friend or family member I would love for you to pass this on to them. 

If you'd like to find out more about working with me you can book a free Introductory Call, give me a call or email me. 

I look forward to hearing from you. :)

​Sarah

I think most people accept the importance of sleep. However, when it comes to prioritising sleep and doing what we can to aid good quality sleep, most of us could do better.

I am very grateful to say that sleep is rarely a problem for me. Despite this I still feel the benefits of a good bedtime routine. I have been actively working on mine for the last year or so. It doesn’t always go to plan, but the more I work on it the more of a habit it becomes.
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As well as improving the quality of my sleep, the main benefit has been the feeling of calm that I now associate with going to bed. It’s a feeling I very much recommend!
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Look forward to it! Set aside a bit of time to clean and declutter your bathroom and bedroom. Having a clean, clear space around your bed and in your bathroom make getting ready for bed a much more appealing experience. In turn, getting good quality sleep is so much easier.

• Step away from your screens! Decide on a time to say ‘goodnight’ to your phone, laptop, tablet etc. (I aim for 9:30pm every night – it doesn’t always happen but having something to aim for really helps). Cortisol is the hormone our body uses to regulate our sleeping patterns. Looking at your phone, and laptop and being literally attached to your smartwatch can play havoc with your cortisol levels. Having at least an hour of screen-free time before trying to sleep does make a difference.
• Reduce your blue-light intake. As well as having screen-free time before bed, the build-up of blue-light exposure during the evening also disrupts your cortisol levels. Try using the ‘night-shift’ function on all your screens to help reduce this.
• Go old-school, get an alarm clock, and make your bedroom a screen-free zone at night. If you get yourself an alarm clock, there’s no need to have your phone in your bedroom. It really does aid better sleep and, once you get used to it, allows your brain to ‘turn-off’ as it knows it can’t be disturbed during the night.
• Introduce aromatherapy into your bedroom. Essential oils can be very effective when used properly. You can use them in so many ways, for example skincare products, aromatherapy diffusers, pillow sprays and roll-ons. If you want some recommendations let me know!
• Avoid caffeine and alcohol after dinner. Find a more relaxing drink for the evening to aid sleep and help keep your body hydrated. My favourites at the moment are the Pukka Night-time blend or Echinacea and Elderberry blend.
• If you share a bed and your routine isn’t the same as you partner’s, then invest in a sleep mask and earplugs if necessary. They really can make a difference.
• Make an actual routine, stick to it for a week and see how you feel. Try and factor in an hour to your evening for this wind-down process. I used to watch TV to help relax but I’ve realised that now my bedroom is a much nicer place to be, my body and mind benefit so much more from time in my bathroom and bedroom before bed.
• My routine is broadly as follows. There aren’t many people that can stick to an exact routine every night but having something to aim for that you can adapt as you need to is really helpful.
  •  Make a cup of night-time tea to drink during the evening
  • Put my phone on the landing to charge at 9:30pm (ish!)
  • Start the relaxation aromatherapy side of my Lumie Bodyclock Alarm clock when I go upstairs
  • Get ready for bed - shower if I’ve got time and definitely if I’ve had a hectic day or still feel a bit wired; use an aromatherapy moisturiser (at the moment I'm using the Neal's Yard Create Body Lotion with added Lavender and Geranium essential oils)
  • Read for a while
  • Put Bear & Edie to bed downstairs 
  • Spritz my pillow with Goodnight Pillow Spray and check the alarm is set for the morning
  • Turn out the light
  • Sleep soundly till morning!

 

​I work with many people who have issues with their sleep. If you’d like to have a chat to discuss your sleep problems I’d love to hear from you. Book in for a free 30-minute Introductory Call now. :)
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You might be interested in my blog post Keeping Things Simple. :)

​Sarah x

 
I don't know about you, but this extended winter that we're having has really put me into hibernation mode!

It also seems to have put me into 'eating mode'. Afternoons at around 4pm have become a bit of a low energy point leaving me thinking about tea and chocolate. 

An afternoon smoothie has become my afternoon pick me up life-saver!

They taste good, they are a great energy boost and they are full of great ingredients. My kids really like them too, so they are a winner all round. :)

I know a lot of people just chuck things in a blender and create something good, but I find I'm better following a recipe. I had to stock up on a few items, but now I have them I can have a smoothie in my hand in minutes.

My current favourites are from Deliciously Ella. The Blueberry and Banana Breakfast Smoothie, Mango and Cashew Smoothie and the Banana, Date and Almond Shake are regular 4pm favourites. The Chai Latte is amazing at any time of day and is a great alternative to coffee and the Date Shake, is perfect if you're craving something really sweet!

If you like the sound of these smoothies you can find the recipes on the Deliciously Ella app or on the website and there are lots and lots of healthy and very tasty ideas to choose from. As well as smoothies there are also great recipes for breakfast, main meals, salads, sides and sweets.

​Enjoy!

​Photo by Sara Cervera on Unsplash

I'm not always very consistent at making proper goals and sticking to them. I am constantly striving to get better at it (I should probably make that a goal in its own right!). However, my running goal is one that I did achieve. Better still, I kept at it and have every intention to keep going. 

​I was prompted to think about my running again after Bear and I had our very own 'medal hoard' at the beginning of September. Bear was awarded 3rd place in the Border Camp South competition (an event for people who own Border Terriers) for Best Female Border Terrier and I got a Personal Best in a local 10K event the next day. Two medals in two days!

My PB is nothing amazing compared to many of the runners at the event, but it is still my personal best and I am so happy to have achieved it. ​There are so many people out there doing amazing things all around us that it can be easy to dismiss the importance of our own achievements. I really believe that setting yourself a goal is such a good way of doing something positive for yourself, and giving yourself the opportunity to  shine - something that I think a lot of people struggle with.
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This time of year is a great time to set yourself a new goal, especially if you have children in education and this is a new start for them too. I would love to hear about any goals you want to set yourself - whatever it is. Sometimes the act of telling someone else makes it a bit more real and means you will be more likely to stick to it! I will also be very happy to give you some encouragement along the way. :)

As you are probably aware, I'm particularly interested in working with people who are struggling to get to where they want to be. This could be because of issues with anxiety or lack of confidence connected to something - or someone - that has affected you, a sense of grief or loss or anything at all. In my experience setting a personal goal can be a really useful way of feeling better about yourself whatever situation you find yourself in. I sometimes use goal-setting as part of a plan of treatment as, depending on the goal, it can be one way of taking responsibility for your own health and well-being.
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​I started running when I was 39. My mum developed severe osteoporosis in her 60s and it was distressing to see her suffering more and more as the years went on and not being able to do anything to help. I knew that high impact weight-bearing exercise was a good way to increase bone density and try and prevent osteoporosis, so I decided running was something I should do. Sport was not my thing when I was younger so this was a big challenge for me. I started using one of the 0-5K apps on my phone and about 6 months after starting the training, and a few months after I turned 40, I ran my first 10k event. 

I now run between 30 minutes and an hour every week. A few years ago I could only dream of being someone that could 'just go out for a run'. It didn't seem like something I could ever achieve. It wasn't easy at all but I'm so pleased I persevered. The first few weeks of the training programme were agony. Just running for two minutes even with the knowledge that after that you could walk for 3 minutes seemed an impossibility, not to mention very painful!

It was a mental challenge just as much as a physical one. I can still remember making myself think that with every step I was helping to keep osteoporosis at bay. I also found that there was a huge benefit in exercising outside. I used to try and multi-task while I was running - planning out the rest of the day or working through a problem.

I now see a real benefit in just running and giving my mind a bit of time off. I look around me and see what's going on and notice things that I might not normally notice. When it feels like hard work I still like to think that every step is keeping me a little bit further away from osteoporosis. I also try and remember to be proud of my achievement - it might be a small achievement in the grand scheme of things, but it's still my achievement.

If you are interested in finding out more about working with me, how I can help you, and possibly setting some goals for yourself, please get in touch using the form below and we can find a time to speak. I'm easy to talk to and a really good listener :)

You might also be interested in reading my posts on gratitude, anxiety and tips on de-stressing and slowing down. ​

​This post was inspired by a newsletter that I sent out soon after Mother's Day earlier this year. I talked about the fact that for many of us, it can be extremely difficult to cope with a specific day in the calendar if it reminds us of someone that is no longer with us. It could be Mother or Father's day, a birthday, anniversary, Christmas or anything else that acts as a trigger for you.

I received  some lovely replies to that newsletter which i really enjoyed reading. It made me think that it touched a chord with many of you, so I thought I would rework it as a blog post. I decided to focus on using gratitude to help get through a difficult time, which I hope you enjoy reading.

When my parents died it was a very sad and difficult time, but of course you can't make the assumption that losing a parent, or anyone, is always a sad thing. There could be any number of reasons why it's not. What is certain, is that whatever the situation, there will always be emotions involved. I feel that using gratitudes can be helpful to cope with any emotions, but also a helpful way to approach life generally. It's not just about facing times of difficulty, so I hope everyone will be able to take something away from this post.
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Gratitude is actually big business now. Many large companies have increased staff morale, leadership qualities and productivity, amongst other things, by incorporating gratitudes into their work model. It doesn't only benefit those in the workplace though.

Research has shown that being grateful has a positive impact on the central nervous system and can actually affect the molecular structure of the brain. The result is that we are happier, healthier, less stressed and we're also likely to sleep better. What's not to like? If you're interested in understanding a bit more, read this article by The Power of Ideas on the power of gratitude for more details.
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Eleven years on, I'm happy to say that Mother's Day is no longer a traumatic day for me. I often think about my mum, but Mother's Day is now a day when I am particularly grateful for having her be my mum and can enjoy happy memories of her.

For the last few years I'd been trying to use gratitudes to help get me through difficult times like Mother's Day without realising that they were a 'thing'! Now I know a bit more about it, I have worked gratitudes in to my daily life with more purpose.

I use the Best Self Journal​ most days to keep myself organised, and one of the nicest parts about using it is the space to write three things you are grateful for morning and evening. I now find that even on days when I haven't used the journal, I am much more likely to take a step back from whatever I'm doing, long enough to think about what I am thankful for. It has definitely put me in a more positive frame of mind, and more importantly I think, it's helped me become a more thoughtful person.

Of course this changes day to day. This morning when I went for a run through my local woods, I was grateful for the shade of the trees (it was about 28 degrees at 8:30am!), for my health so that I can run, for my running partner who gives me the incentive to keep up the running and for having somewhere as beautiful as Highwoods Country Park just a few minutes from where I live. 

At times like Mother's Day it may well get a bit more deep and meaningful. ​As I mentioned in my newsletter, I will sometimes find old photos to help me remember my mum and dad and be grateful for them. These are a couple of my favourites.

The first one is in 1969 I think. My parents both worked in what was then Rhodesia (my mum was a nurse out there and my dad helped to run a school for local children on a Methodist mission). They met, married and my big brother and sister - the twins - were born out there. This is them all coming home to Britain for good on the ship SA Oranje. I don't know why, but I've always loved this picture, even though I wouldn't be around for another 5 years! ​

On their way back to England, 1969 
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Mum, Dad and Sophie - proud grandparents, 2003
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It's very simple to make gratitude a part of your everyday life. Here are a few pointers:

If you are interested in finding out more about working with me, and how I can help you, book in your Discovery Call now. :)
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You might also be interested in reading my posts on anxiety and tips on de-stressing and slowing down. 

​​Anxiety is defined as a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease. It refers to the physical and psychological symptoms that we feel when we are anxious. Anxiety is a very personal thing and we will all experience it differently, but symptoms such as nausea, an accelerated heart rate, difficulty sleeping, a feeling of fear, dread, or numbness, an overactive mind and a sense of restlessness are common.

​Anxiety is part of the ‘fight or flight’ response of the sympathetic nervous system – the way our body reacts to a perceived danger or stress. This response developed to help protect early humans from threats such as wild animals, by putting the body in a state of high alert to either fight the threat or flee. These days, it is far more likely to be triggered by pressures at work, home, or school. It should go like this – threat, response, recovery.

The trouble is, that for some people (1 in 6 people in any given week, according to the charity Mind), the reaction is being triggered so often that a state of anxiety becomes the norm. There is a lot of information available about the potential long-term effects of living in a prolonged state of anxiety. I came across an article which explains in a bit more detail how you need a balance between the two sides of the autonomic nervous system. It’s an interesting read and gives you a better understanding of the physiological side of anxiety.

This post is more personal - a snap shot of my own experience with anxiety. I want to share with you a bit of my own story in the hope of raising awareness of how anxiety can gradually take over, and that by talking about it, acknowledging it and being aware of why it is happening, you can beat it.
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I was a very anxious child.  In fact, I was an anxious teenager and an anxious adult too. I was very self-conscious and constantly worried about what people thought. I had some very good friends that I could trust and I had a lot of fun - I just worried too, and over-thought everything. I never really ‘did’ emotions when I was growing up. I had a secure and loving family, but discussing or displaying emotions didn’t really happen. I didn’t know what to do with my emotions, so I just kept them bottled up inside.

School was the biggest source of anxiety for me. Doing a talk in class was the absolute worst thing. I was very creative at finding ways to avoid doing the things that made me anxious, which was basically anything where I was in the spot-light.

My anxiety mainly manifested as nausea. For years I barely ate on a school morning. I can clearly picture myself in the kitchen before school with my mum, feeling so sick and dreading going to school. When I got there and I was with my friends, I was usually fine, but knowing that didn’t alter how I felt every morning.
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The crazy thing is that I just don’t think I realised what was going on at the time. I think I knew it was the worry about school that was making me feel so bad. I rarely felt ill at the weekend, well not until we all sat down to watch Open All Hours, Miss Marple, or some other Sunday night TV. It meant the weekend was almost over, and acted as the trigger for the anxiety to start all over again. 
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​Fast forward a few years to my first proper post-university job. Within a year or so of being there I had developed Irritable Bowel Syndrome. This had a big effect on my job and involved being sent to see the company doctor. I took the decision to find a new job - something more within my comfort zone and out of the anxiety-trigger zone. The anxiety was taking over.
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Another seven or eight years later, I had my first proper homeopathic consultation. The effects were incredible. It felt like all the layers of uncertainty and anxiety I had been carrying around with me since childhood were gradually falling away. It was such a subtle change that it was only at follow up appointments when I was questioned about certain things I’d mentioned before, that I would realise how much I had moved forward. I was still me, but those anxious thoughts and the almost constant inner dialogues were gone.
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I can now say with certainty and gratitude, that anxiety doesn’t rule my life anymore – it hasn’t for years. That’s not to say I’m never anxious, but now it’s just how it should be - a temporary state, not one that takes control. The way I experienced anxiety was unique to me. My homeopath asked about my childhood experiences and the triggers and manifestations of my anxiety to give me a personalised prescription. It changed my life.
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If you are interested in hearing more about how homeopathy’s individualised approach can help the symptoms of anxiety please get in touch - remember that anything we discuss is confidential.
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For a few tips on slowing down and taking control of your day right now, you can take a look at my December post :) 

​​Happy New Year!

We are now more than a week into 2017. How is it going for you so far? I attended a series of workshops in the last few months of 2016, and one of the themes that has really stayed with me is that 'small things can make a big difference'. I have been working really hard in the last few weeks to implement some small changes to make a big difference to my life.

If you sometimes feel that life is getting away from you, or that despite your good intentions you never keep your new year's resolutions, read on to get a couple of ideas about some of the small things you could do to get 2017 off to a fantastic start. And keep it that way.
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Planning

The biggest game-changer for me has been an emphasis on planning out my day. Until I got used to doing it, this was somehow a small thing and an enormous thing all at the same time! I'm still not doing it absolutely every day, but I do it most days, and when I do, I really notice the difference. I have found that it makes me feel in control of my day which is an amazing feeling! It means that there is no space for anxiety about getting things done or getting somewhere on time as you've planned it all out.

Now that might sound a bit dull to some of you, but it really isn't. As you get used to planning your day, you begin to have a much more realistic sense of what is achievable in one day.  I have also found that it has helped me to think about what is important to me. My daily plan isn't just a long list of mundane tasks. The idea is that you plan so that you get the essential stuff done, but you also factor in time for the things that you want to do. It can help you to think about what you don’t want in your life any more too.

So, 1-4pm on a Saturday might be set aside for family time. You don't have to decide in advance what it is you want to do if don't want to, but just setting aside that time (and planning the rest of your day realistically) means that family time will happen! You might choose to have an hour set aside in your evening, for reading/ watching tv/ spending time with your children/ social media or whatever it is that helps you relax. The key is, that by planning when you are going to do certain things, it allows you to take control of your day (and stops you wasting hours scrolling through facebook!).
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One thing at a time

Becoming more organised is key to taking control. I mentioned above that by planning your day you become more realistic about what is achievable in a day. Another thing is to become more focused.

​Multi-tasking used to be the thing that we were all supposed to be able to do - if you weren't juggling 5 different things at a time then you were a bit of a waste of space. I've never been good at multi-tasking (how can you ever get something done properly and to the best of your abilities and actually finish it if you're thinking about a load of other things at the same time?), and so I'm very relieved that single-tasking is the new big thing!

I think this approach applies to everyone regardless of whether you work or not. I read the article 'Why single-tasking can make everything better' by Lauren Laverne, last week which explains it all very nicely. Since I've been taking steps to plan and be focused I would totally support the findings that suggest single-tasking reduces stress, increases productivity and improves focus and decision making. If you want more of that in your life read the article here - it will take you 6 minutes!
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What do you want out of 2017?
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You might decide that being more focused and organised is a great idea so that you can feel more in control of your life. Fantastic. But do you know what you want 2017 to be about for you? Life really could get dull if it’s just about managing the family diary or your work schedule (or both).

Why not set aside an hour or so one evening this week (tonight would be great) to make yourself a list of some of the things you would like to achieve in 2017? You might have one big goal (being able to run 5k in 30 minutes. Or just being able to run 5k!) or you might have lots of smaller things (having a relaxing bath one night a week). Then think about what you’ll need to do to make it happen. The big things will probably require long-term planning, the small things might just need a bit of thought and organisation. Whatever your goals, try taking some small steps today to help you have the 2017 you really want to have.
 
Need some help?
If you like the sound of all that, but you’re not quite sure where to start or where to find the energy or motivation then I would love to hear from you! Homeopathy is at the heart of what I do, but I also offer homeobotanicals (more about them soon) and can advise on organic skincare and supplements and can suggest small changes to your lifestyle to help you get back on track. Book in online for a free 20 minute chat or drop me an email to find out more.
 
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In 1690, John Locke the English philosopher and influential Enlightenment thinker wrote

"New opinions are always suspected, and usually opposed, without any other reason but because they are not already common". 

These words are over 300 years old, but I think many people will agree with me that they stand the test of time. As an adult it is instinctive, and probably quite sensible, to be suspicious of something you know nothing about.

As a homeopath I come across many people for whom homeopathy is a new concept which is to be expected in a country where conventional medicine has become the norm. So, in an effort to allay the suspicions of anyone to whom homeopathy is something new I will give you a potted history of the origins of homeopathy in my own attempt at some enlightenment on the subject!

In the 4th century BC Hippocrates, widely considered as the Father of Modern Medicine, highlighted two ways of healing: the way of Similars - that 'like treats like' as used by homeopathy; and the way of Opposites - as used by conventional medicine (e.g. if you have a high temperature you are given something to lower it).

After Hippocrates death it was the way of Opposites which achieved greater popularity in Europe, and the way of Similars went underground as 'folk-medicine'. It made a brief appearance at the time of Paracelsus (1493-1541) when he recognised that poisons could have a positive medicinal benefit if the dose was reduced.

​Two centuries later, it was discovered again by Samuel Hahnemann (1755-1843) a German physicist and translator.

Unhappy with the harsh medical practices of the day Hahnemann looked for a way to reduce the damaging side-effects associated with medical treatment. Hahnemann's breakthrough came while translating an article about the action of quinine in the treatment of malaria.

He was dissatisfied with the explanation given in the article and took matters into his own hands by conducting some self-experimentation. He discovered that by taking regular doses of the source of quinine - Peruvian bark - he developed the symptoms of malaria.

​When he stopped taking the doses the symptoms disappeared proving that he did not actually have malaria. He deduced that the reason why this substance was successful in curing malaria was that, in a healthy person, it produced the symptoms of malaria.

​This was the beginning of Hahnemann's discovery of homeopathy.

Over time and with much experimentation on himself and other willing healthy individuals he discovered that (as Paracelsus had realised centuries before) by reducing the size of the dose, the healing benefits of a substance were maintained while the side-effects were diminished.

On one occasion, a vial of medicine was dropped on the floor of his carriage. It remained there for some time being shaken by the unmade roads of the time. When he found it and used the medicine again he realised it was now even more effective. It is from this chance happening that he came across the notion of energising his medicines by shaking them - now known as succussion.

​Hahnemann took the long known principle of the way of Similars and organised it into a workable, methodical system of medicine. It is these methods of dilution and succession that are still used today over 200 years later.  

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